Cinders - Thank you fo rthis. My sons' friends are such fun. We talked about all sorts of stuff, and had a really relaxing time. Snodderley gave you a great post - I always love it when she comes by.
I do think you may move on beyond him. I don't say that to make you feel sad - because if you do, you will be fine about it. But he may feel less good then! But that isn't your problem.
I do know that when you kids are older they will remember what you were like and be so grateful that you stayed strong and stable for them. My kids tell me things about their childhood that I am astonished they remember.
