So of course I remember that OMW told me that OM thinks he'll be coming back to our area for work once his assignment is over where he's at now. That is supposed to be in a couple years. How perfect for WW. DS16 graduates from H.S. OM comes back. WW tells kids, see, I tried to work it out with dad, but it didn't work and now I'm dating OM. See, I told you he had nothing to do with me and dad's problems and aren't you happy that I'm so happy with OM? Can't you just be happy for me?
Actually, that sort of thing is fairly common. Waywards love to keep their paramours underground under after the divorce, and then introduce them to the family with a "I'd like to introduce you to someone I just met." Inevitably, the affair will have been going on for a LONG time.
That's one of the reasons I'm pro-exposure. It keeps things real.
