Originally Posted By: Evie
I just don't know whether to continue to try and build a friendship or go dimish. Dark creates anger in him. Answering his calls/emails etc is ok, but his actions do not speak of him making any strides towards me, only steps further away from me.
Evie - seems to me th you shld do what you are able to do. If you need space, take it. If you feel friendly, then act on it. It seems like any contact w/ H shld at least be neutral. If you can also make it light and friendly - interested in him - then go for it. What wld it mean to build a friendship? What actions wld th involve and is he receptive? He wants you to respond to him when he has a question or need, but what else does he seem to want fr you?


me: 47
H: 48
he has 2 grown sons
M 1995(my 1st, his 3rd)
hit iceberg 6/07
S 9/26/07
before
now