Lise,

Be very careful with your emotions right now. He has done this to you before and is not to be trusted.....yet.

I hate to say it, but he is not through this at all. He needs to work on himself, by himself, before he will be ready to work on your R.

I know you're scared of a future without him in it, but do you really want a future of doubts and constant questions or one of honesty, giving, and love?

I'm sure I sound harsh. I don't mean to be. I just want to point on the rather harsh reality to you since I know your emotions are reeling right now and overriding your head.

Take it from me, my H has left me three times in 3 months! It's very painful and gets worse each time.

I will pray for you and your H. Don't let your heart lead you and think what will happen to your sons if he moves in and out again.

(((((Lise)))))


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!