The best thing to do is to allow this wound to heal for the two of you. I read in a book that as long as you are trying to fight to save the marriage, you are not allowing her to see the wrong things that she has done. Homer would call this being masochistic. Now that I am at a point where I can think rationally and not emotionally, Homer's points make good sense.
Your wife knows that you love her. My wife knows that I love her. Typically, what happens when things go south, men start to call their wives all type of dirty names and they unleash a lot of fury. We both are in control of our emotions and KNOW that is not going to do anything positive. Just be David. Be a gentleman and if that door opens, kick it down. It doesn't sound like what she is doing is going to be long lasting. Keep being a positive, upbeat man and allow the Lord to guide you.
Isn't there a lot of work in Arizona?
OneWish's Story
"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them."
