Hi Sox. Catching up on your long and winding road! Hopefully the summer break will help you feel rejuvenated, but it already sounds like you'll be busy if you plan to move.
Back to the chores.....what if you ask your H just to wash the towels and sheets? He would feel like he was helping, but you could do your clothes yourself. Likewise, he could load the dishwasher and you could unload it so you could put things away so you can find them.
