My motto lately has been, just do the next thing you have to do...then the next thing after that. If I think about it all at once it's too daunting and that's when the emotion comes flooding in. Try not to think of 'getting on with your life' as one big task you need to accomplish, just focus on the day to day and before you know you're actually getting on with your life.
On that note I have some major decisions to make....and it feels like all at once. H has really taken a back seat with this whole house selling thing...I'm doing it all on my own and it is exhausting...not to mention nerve racking. There was an open house (not easy to get the house ready for this with the kids...but it worked out thanks to help from some friends). In a nutshell.... - I need to drop the price on my house because after 2 weeks there's no one biting - H's financials are in and suspiciously there is one page missing...the page with his debts...interesting. I hope to get that sorted out with my L tomorrow. - The house I want just dropped in price (YEAH!!), but apparently someone else may be interested so I hope to be putting in a conditional offer by Tuesday.
There is so much going on and the kids are keeping me so busy I feel completely spent right now. I'm quite intimidated by this whole house thing (we bought this house new before it was built so I've never done this before).
SO...I'll just do the next thing I can do and hope it all falls into place.
I had a good weekend with D & S. We went to Rib festival in the park yesterday with a whole bunch of friends...it was hectic, but fun. H is out of town for the week so I have the kids all to myself for 7 days....I better get to bed if I'm going to get through it!!
Yes W2G...tomorrow is my "big day". I've never had a problem with b-days or getting older but for some reason 35 is hitting me a bit harder....it's probably because of the sitch. Oh well....at least I'm still a lot younger than OW!! LOL!
Any thoughts or advice on the house thing is appreciated....I'm a bit lost. J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out