Just having a difficult time lately with that, but I like how you think about it - a babysitter.
Ex dropped off the kids today. I was across the street talking with the neighbor guy. Ex gave him a nasty look as he pulled in the driveway. I walked up to ex and was pleasant and smiley. I asked how the kids were and we laughed about some stuff. He looks sad and forlorn. I'm just glad to have my babies back away from him and his bad influences.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11