I will look into those cd's for sure. I went to pick up my mail from the mailbox on sat afternoon, when I pulled up I guess he heard me and he opened the door to say hi, which I found really odd considering he has made no effort at all to even be nice or caring. He made small chit chat and then I left. The night before I was out with some friends and had a few too many drinks, got home and did the drunk text. I told him I missed him and that I missed his friendship. I told him I didn't want to hate him anymore. I know I shouldn't have done it and I feel really bad about it because I basicly just handed him back his power, but I thought he would at least acknowledge it. He didn't respond or even say anything about it. I don't understand whats going on with him. We were married for 2 1/2 years and then just all of a sudden go to not even speaking. What should I do here. Should I just not even try and maybe he will come around?