h and I went out on a date last night. for me last night was all about seeing if we could still have fun with each other, so that was my goal. we went into boston and had far too many drinks (stayed in town) and a really good dinner and yes, had fun. but it ended up being a far more informative evening than I anticipated.
yep, h found DB. back in january (was that it, h?). thru some rather impressive snooping he found me...probably wasn't all that hard to do considering my siggy. even though the name is fictional, the rest of the info isn't, ya know?
told me he spent 2 weeks reading every post I had on here.
and that is part of the reason for the original fishing emails to me back then...its part of why he started looking at things differently, reading what I wrote, seeing my changes in writing over the past several months, and it helped him look at his own life and R differently.
a lot was talked about...good talk, actually. but still spinning a bit from it. not to mention, painfully hungover. I will never drink again. ever. waaaaayyyyy too much imbibed over the course of the evening.
just wanted to give a quick update. feel free to continue to post, I probably still will.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
