Of course, see, she has referred back to it because it was the one time that SHE was the vulnerable one in the passive mode pursuing you.
If you didn't sleep with her last night, that also would have upset her because it's you distancing yourself from her, not the other way around. See you are giving her all the power and control. She leaves AND she can pull you back in because you are being the puppy taking whatever scraps you can get from her.
I have several questions:
1. When she chose to leave you behind on vacation, are there extenuating circumstances, were you arguing about where or when to go...or were you available on those dates and she just really chose to not go with you?
2. Did you agree to her requests last night and today to sleep with her and take a shower with her?
3. Perhaps you find times to talk to her when she is busy because you crave her attention whenever you can't get it. Did you read my long post earlier about the "Bottomless Pit"?
4. Your inquiry about if she wanted to move out a month ago...I guess it's the same as saying I'm afraid you may leave me; do you want to?
