oh, I do wonder sometimes if he would feel the same way, having this new ability to apologize if it hadn't been for him finding out about when I cheated on me 8 years ago. For those of you who don't know. I had my own "A" (we weren't M yet, but I was waiting and waiting and waiting lol) and he didn't find out until the day he told me he wanted me as his W forever (after the sitch) and he ended up asking me so I had to tell him.

I always wonder if it made him realize that he could even lose ME. IDK.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."