This should show us all that everything is not what it seems.
We let our over active imagination run away with us at times because we DON'T KNOW whats going on. That, to me is the hardest part. The yearning for an answer, knowing we don't really need one, but it sure helps with closure.
She seems like she'll soon tire of her infatuation with an older man. Good!
Keep standing in the sunshine!
Hugs,
Jeanette
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
I hope you mean you would take him back only if he is deserving, if he can abide by the boundaries that you would set.
Yes Jack, it means just that...I meant to say..I still love him enough to want to work at our marriage, if he at some point would tell me that he wishes to reconcile.
Thanks for making a very good point ! xx
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
She seems like she'll soon tire of her infatuation with an older man. Good!
Jeanette, even though I hope that very much, there is no way to know if it will actually be the case. It could still take a long time and life may have taken my heart elsewhere by then...
Life will unravel itself one day at a time, one moment at a time...and I shall try to find the positives in every single thing. I feel that God is helping me to do that, and to be humble and greatful.
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
Yesterday after the kids left I went to give a friend a house warming present, the went to get paint for S4's bedroom, then to another friend's to help her in the garden and to do some shopping. In the evening I went to the movies with 2 friends, we saw Fool's Gold ! hahaha - very silly, but very funny. Today I woke up early, went to get some food, started painting S4's two walls red, and then my parents came over, they helped a bit, we had lunch and then, left. Then another friend call and asked me to join them, they were having a bbq and would love my company, so I went, was having great fun...then at 5.30pm my phone rang, it was H, he was at the house - oops NO Cinders !!
I was right around the corner and he knows those friends very well, his business partner was there too...so I told him to drop the kids off where I was at. He did, came in and had some drinks, I think he LOVED living his 'old' life again, but I didn't spend too much time with him, just some chit chat, there were plenty of other people to keep me entertained and the kids jumped in the pool !!!
H left.
Kids and I stayed for dinner and we all had a blast !
Isn't life sometimes just wonderful !?!
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
Cinders - I just had a great day too. Some friends of my son came around for late afternoon [he was somewhere else, revising for his final exam - they came to see me!!], and they stayed for dinner, and we laughed until we hurt. I had such fun.
it will die a slow death and your husband will realize one day the foolish mistakes he has made.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
