H is having affair after all - part 3

[Evie]

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Thanks Naej and ACJ, you are right, hard not to panic a little, especially when tryin to gain a glimmer of hope....

What part of the UK are you from? I'm in the middle.

I have time this weekend to read alot, was reading about MLC and chapter 6 in DR as Jen suggested (hope your proud of me Jen?).

Not managed to come up with any small goals yet. I was reading on another post about allowing a friendship with your spouse enables him/her to have an emotional bridge to the ow, almost as if you are accepting the a by allowing the friendship and that the was may never want anything more b/c he doesn't miss you enough. Does that make sense?

I just don't know whether to continue to try and build a friendship or go dimish. Dark creates anger in him. Answering his calls/emails etc is ok, but his actions do not speak of him making any strides towards me, only steps further away from me.