Thanks GF. Yes, it seems things are going really well right now.
H has been making an effort to contact me and ask me to do things. He texted me yesterday morning before 8 am asking if I would go to lunch with him. I told him yes and asked what time he wanted me to come over. He said, I would rather go a lot earlier than we did last week so that I'm not rushed to get to work. ...we went last Saturday, but I didn't think we were rushed. So anyway, I went over to his place pretty early.
Well.....I saw why he wanted me to come so early. He put the moves on me , and he had obviously been planning this.
I swear I thought he was going to tell me he loved me at one point...but he didn't. Although he has been calling me 'baby' pretty often, which is nice. This morning I had an email from him that said "I just wanted you to know that i had a really good time today. Everything not just the obvious parts."
I feel like he is finally seeing that there are things he can do to make things better between us and that things can be ok again. I am finally seeing that this is a slow process that I can't rush.