Maybe not exactly what you want, as I think they focus on actions more than feelings, but the 2 books I have found most helpful so far are Divorce Remedy and the other (also by Michele Weiner-Davis) is Change Your Life and Everyone in it. That is kind of like DR in it's philosophy of changing your actions, doing what works, etc., but not just a R focus, but it says on the cover: how to transform difficult Rs, overcome anxiety and depression & break free from Self-Defeating Ways of Thinking, Feeling, or Acting. If anyone has found some other books that are compatible with these, I'd love to hear about them also!!! \:\) And I'm hoping Ms. W-D will also write a book hopefully in the near future dealing with issues if you do have separation/divorce and all the issues that would come into play with those. \:\) Karen


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