Sounds like a frustrating week, Nocode! Sorry to hear that! But the good part is your W is obviously ok with camping/fishing now so have you taken your kids on a trip yet?
Sorry also to hear about your mediator. That sounds like a problem to me. I know you were suspicious of the mediator's impartiality and it sounds like that confirms it. What a shame!
I just noticed today probably again that your W is 43 and my H is also--I have to think they are going through some kind of MLC which makes them crazy. Or has your wife always been like this? I was asking on my thread yesterday (will check later) but I am wondering if they will return to more of a normal personality or this is it--b/c if I knew that I would file for divorce tomorrow (or at least I'd like to think that I would)! Karen