have been at this a long time, like you, and like you I miss my old life, but what if you h hadn't had an affair, and just stayed at home being a self obsessed idiot, controlling you and being mean. The OW is not causing this, as you know. She is a symptom. If he was truly in love he would be happy and fulfilled, and trying to make life as easy for you as possible. His guilt, shame and unahppiness are drivig this horrible behaviour.
This is so true, Mrs .
I agree with Jeanette. DO NOT ask him for the check. If you do he will not give it to you.
My H is late every month. He uses it as control. If I ask, he will not give it to me. If I don't he will.
You need to take your control back.
Your life is not over. You can make yourself stronger and happier. We have all been there. It is your mind. You are giving them the control.
Your H knows what he is doing. Remember how good you felt when you were in control of your life. Take it back!!! you are a strong woman.
