Hi angelica and Cinders,

Excellent post Angelica. I do believe H 's problems stem from his father. For about 7 yrs, they had a rough life. H's mom said that when he :woke" up it was a transformed man.

Cinders, of course I still stand. But from far away. I have complete confidence H will wake up one day. Talking to one of our fellow dbers, We came to the conclusion if H was done with this family , he would have no trouble bringing the OW around or being normal to me.

I just continue living MY life, while H is stuck in a time warp.

Reading Anes2moro's post, i have always known OW was nothing ..is nothing..just by his actions and words.

So the saga continues! All is quiet over here!