I know this is so hard on you. I'm so sorry your husband continues to waffle. I can understand his fear of the OW. Sounds like she's a little 'fatal attraction'-ish. BUT, I would agree with Puppy in that as long as your message to your husband is I'm there for you regardless of your indecision, he will continue on his weak path. If he isn't forced to make the hard choices, he'll continue to waver back and forth.
I also understand how your dad feels. It's very difficult to watch someone you love with all your heart go through the pain you're going through. He wants you to be strong and make the right decisions for your future. I believe he thinks your husband won't ever change and I'm sure it's tearing him apart. He knows you deserve better - just like all of us know you deserve better. And you know you deserve better.
I hope you can find some peace soon, Sara.
You're in my thoughts.
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence
