Time for another update.

I got no reply all week from W to my email. She did "reply" to it in an email regarding the same subject title, but it did not even address the contents of what I wrote -- she merely asked what I was planning to do once my lease runs out in this apartment next month.

But I got another email later this week from the mediator W hired. It was sent in reply to what W had sent her, and I was being copied. W had asked the mediator for the final copy of the Separation Agreement (SA) she had been preparing and to ask the mediator, this female attorney she found to act as our mediator, whether she would now represent W as her personal legal counsel.

So not only do I find this mediator is biased, but W has felt comfortable enough in how this lawyer was giving her all the benefits of a doubt that W would hire her as her attorney. Priceless.

The so-called mediator did have enough integrity to copy me on her reply to W, which was to tell W that she could not represent her unless I was willing to waive any complaint of conflict of interest.

On that, I'm not inclined.

It's now been several days, and still no official response from W on my email. I will be sending a follow-up message with a deadline for her to respond. I am not going to stall much longer before I take her silence to mean she is taking the least favorable, extreme option (a court battle).

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On another note. W announced last evening when I called our S's that she had bought a tent and they were camping out in the backyard of our house last night. She really is a piece of work. (This might not mean much to those of you who haven't followed my thread, but it is significant in my particular sitch.)


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.