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nah! Just kidding - we're still here! ;\)

Went to visit X MIL tonight \:\(

I can't imagine. I just feel so bad for her.

Can I order a drink before I give someone a drink? I need a margarita!


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I'll join you!!!!


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drink please

doesn't matter what

wet and full of alcohol

skraight up

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Is there a drink called a tornado in Kansas?


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Not sure - guess I could find out next weekend when I go out with my cousin

Talked to my uncle tonight. He has a GF already. My aunt has been gone two months, they were married 30 years. On one hand, he took great care of her, and I saw the love in his eyes with her. On the other - just wow. I think though, that all of this made him realize how valuable family is. He's a totally different person. I've talked to him more in the past year or so than possibly my whole life!

Peanut is doing good although we're adjusting to the summer hours. I'm trying to be a 'cool' mom ;\) but I think she can't stay up as late as she thinks :P -- even 9 seems to be too late - she gets all weepy and cry-y! EEK!

Happy Memorial Day! Drinks for everyone!


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weird........came across this today.

Deuteronomy 8:16 (NIV)
16 He gave you manna to eat in the desert, something your fathers had never known, to humble and to test you so that in the end it might go well with you.


This was "my" verse for so long. It's funny to me - how we assume this must mean THIS. I assumed the testing, humbling, knocking in my knee caps was all to end up with a better marriage with the X.

So.......looking at life now.......I'll post the blessings I see so far:

* Peanut and I are awesome
* closer relationship with family
* more friends
* job is kicking it into high gear finally!
* Peanut is doing great in school, listening to me, obeying, etc.
* I am not angry any more. I am not really anything when it comes to the x, except sad for him right now - because of his dad.

I know there are more but I just wanted to remind myself I guess. I did assume that the verse was regarding our marriage. And I guess when you're in the thick of it, you just can't see God's plan.


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Those are awesome blessings!!!

I agree, being in the thick of it seems to blind us. Once we are able to step out into the open fresh air again it makes it easier to SEE!

I'm so happy you and peanut are doing so great!!

I'm sure things are only going to get even better \:\)

Hugs,

Jeanette


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hey Chick...

blessings rock my socks off!!!

skraight up!!!

it is so womderful when we can come to a place where we see the blessings instead of the trials!!!

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sometimes a "guilty" pleasure of mine is watching (or listening) to Jerry Springer. My life is pretty ok compared to some of these folks.

Today's show - a dad who is a pimp who also likes to dress like the Pope. His daughter is unhappy with him and doesn't take her kids around him. WOW!


I AM OK
I AM OK
I AM OK



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I taught at a school where one of the kids went on that show

ugh

i watch intervention for the same reason

and

intervention makes me pray

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