You have a wonderful chance of gaining what you need to move forward in life.
I have always thought that something was very wrong with what happened at your first court meeting. Perhaps this is your devine intervention?
Now is the time for you to adhere to following the temporary guidlines to the fullest! No more switching days with him even if it means you cannot see the boys on a special day for you. No more back n forthing with him on anything!!
DO not ask him for the check anymore, yes I know thats a hard one as you 3 need to eat, but don't ask. He knows the date it should be deposited. Let him be late.
No more talking to him even if he's being nice.
Nothing!
Let him begin to wonder whats going on.
You'll find the way to make this all happen and it will be the way you need to. However it turns out.
Just please leave that man alone!
HUGS!!
Jeanette
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!