H is Having Affair after all - Part 2

[Hope4us]

I'm going to a friends tonight for a drink as he has his children for the weekend and has just moved into his own place after his divorce. He had being seperated from his wife for 2 years, she had 2 affairs and the night before the d was final she asked if they could try again, but he has moved on now and didn't want to reconcile.

Evie, I don't think I've replied on your thread before, but I have been following along and I wanted to comment on this quote. I can't believe how many times I've read this or heard of it first hand since I found out about my WW. It's almost like a wayward is so sure they want to move on, but when the reality hits, they finally figure out the grass isn't always greener, but like your friend, buy then the LBS has figured out they don't need the WAS and they reject the WAS's late attempt at reconciling. And I can see that happening in my sitch.

Sounds like to me you're doing as well as can be expected. GAL really does help. But I think is almost helps too much because it makes us LBS realize we are special, contrary to what our WAS's make us out to be and able to make it on our own (not that that is a bad thing at all), but it helps us move on.

Keep your chin up.