Karen, thank you very much for stopping buy. The fantasy world is a common thing - this is the first thing my MC said. He said that sooner or later they step out of it, but nobody can tell the level of the damage done.... so at the end it may not be of any use.

This morning I have been invited to have breakfast at home, it was ok besides that she ate in a jiffy, she closed herself in the bathroom for half an hour and she has been checking her cell phone every 10 minutes.... I thought this is a behavior I would expect from my D when she is going to be a teenager.. not my W!!! Anyway I let it go over my skin without touching me - I was sort of amused.
Then I had a great afternoon with the kids at the ball game where I met CBK - thank you man -
W got the kids an hour and a half late - typical.
Tomorrow I'll take off, I am going away for a week, I am going to "relax" from this family situation.