I am new to your thread and to this board. But a lot of what you say rings true to me as well. It is tough to tell yourself to "give up" on something you feel so strongly about. My W sends me conflicting messages all the time. I have found that the more I go dim the more positive she reacts, but if I go completely dark it seems to tick her off.
A quick question. Why is your H leaving the fixing of the house to you for sale. If he wants to be separated and sell the house shouldn't he at least contribute......afterall it sounds like this whole stich is "his choice"
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
