Pinkribbon, The anger your spouse is projecting onto you is so COMMON!!! Please, for your sanity, DO NOT TAKE IT PERSONALLY. My spouse was so horrible to me when he first left. It was to the point of absurdity. He actually yelled at ME for a car that HE was driving getting repossessed b/c he didn't make the payments, and it was in MY NAME!!! He yelled at me saying I must have told the tow truck people where the car was etc....silly and stupid, but H just felt compelled to roar at me whenever the chance arose. I do believe it has something to do with them feeling that they need to provoke us into hating them so that they can feel justified in doing something they know is hurtful. IT WILL PASS. Be the better person. Just think of it as a tornado that you need to hide from until the sun comes out again and trust me, it will. You just need to have faith and patience!
