Thanks Tink! I did the makeover not long after he left, and I am involved in lots of groups. Just not dating. I sing and I'm in a hiking group, a wine tasting group, a poetry study class. I've made lots of friends and I do lots of things without him. But you may be right, filing may be the one thing that makes him take notice.
Married: 25 years Separated: 5 years Kids: 2, ages 21 and 24 Me: 53 H: 50