Like me, you do have options. As a military member, he will be forced to meet his obligation--the MILPERS manual ensures that. You MUST go to his command if you are facing such an abject change in circumstances. I was fortunate in that H's father jumped in and set him straight right off that bat about the finances an his obligations. Does not sound like you are that fortunate. You have the evidence of the A. The command will take action against him if there is proof, and especially if it also involves anothe military member. If things have been that awful, especially with physical abuse occuring, you need to call toe command to protect yourself and the children. He has made it patently obvious that he is not willing to uphold his obligations, otherwise you would not be facing the housing situation you are. As everyone told me, if you guys do work things out, he will truly understand that you were simply trying to protect the kids' best interests.
SMW
M40/H36 T16/M14 4K B2/08 S4/08 current
Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
