Hey HB.. So glad things are going well for you and your H. I cannot imagine speaking to ow for even two minutes. You are a Saint!

As for seducing stbx.. Not gonna happen.. I told HIM to leave ME alone! Not the right thing and it'd make me feel worse. I don't understand why he would even want anything with me right now anyway since life is so wonderful and he is so happy in ow paradise.

It looks like I have been officially replaced. stbx and ow are getting cozy at his Dad's place again this weekend. Isn't it ironic that when we met, they weren't even speaking because his Dad physically/verbally abused him his whole life. Isn't it ironic that he goes to the place where he knows that this R will be accepted because his Dad did the same thing.. Actually.. it just makes me sick..

So, can anyone tell me how you detach at this stage of the game?? I am so po'd at him most of the time that I can't even stand the sound of his voice.