Hi there, I am so sorry you are thinking about your exH with the ow on vacation; I know what that is like, too. You were married as long as I was and he has only known the ow a very short amount of time. You cannot compare the two. In time, life won't be a 'vacation' to them and reality will set in. I hope that offers you some comfort. It doesn't happen overnight, but it does happen.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
