Well I got up this morning feeling pretty good but then my cousins didn't come in town today. I waited for them & they didn't call until later to let me know they didn't get to make it. I did a few things but I guess with the holiday weekend & last year H & I did things together that it has made it really sad!!!
I sure hope you are right & reality will set in for him. I just hope it doesn't take too long. I have been afraid that he might have some resentment b/c of all the legal stuff during the D process. His brother didn't help matters any, I found out he said not to give me the house or alimony & to stand firm. So H was determined that I was NOT getting this house or alimony. He said he worked too hard on re-modeling it to just give it to me. I helped too but of course he didn't see that part of it, he said I didn't do anything. I wonder how I got paint all over me & splinters in my hands where I would hold stuff for him or how in the world did he get the bay window in by himself???? Yeah, right! I didn't do a thing, but I lived in construction for 7 years before he finished the back part of the house & didn't say a word when I had to step up on plywood & drywall when I came in the door. It was a mess but I never complained & he always wanted to take a vacation instead of finishing the house, guess what, we went on vacation, again I didn't say a word. But does he remember all of that, NO!
I don't mean to talk bad about him, he really is or was a good man & had moral values. I'm still just thinking as close as we were why in the world couldn't he come to me & let me know he met someone on that trip & then we could have worked it out & now of this would be happening right now.
I'm just having a hard time now. Thank you all for your support. I know I can come here, vent & you are here for me!!
