Hi Lisa...thanks, and I didn't even think of it as acting "as if" but it was wasn't it.
When he woke up he went back to work and I went to get D from her grandparents. While he was sleeping all I wanted to do was cuddle up to him like we used to do.
H thinks the D is something he "needs" to do. He keeps asking me to let him do this and we'll be ok. Sometimes I think it's because he wants to move on from me and other times I think he wants to change our R. Lisa, I was thinking about what your H said in your convo that "he'll fix things". My H says that a lot too.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
