Something like this is so individual there is no way to predict when or what the outcome will be.
As long as you leave the door open, possibilities abound. But, as you have already realized, waiting forever isn't an option either. So, keep moving on. And if in 1 year or 2 or 3 she contacts you, then you can decide what you want to do about it.
I am glad to hear you are doing well!!!
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2