Divorce, the gift of pain that keeps giving for a long, long time.
Dont get me wrong, there is much that is going right and much to be grateful for. There are just these painful moments. Still. After 5+ years. All so "She" could be "happy". This was all for her and the OM. Nobody else in this whole situation got what they wanted but them. Kids, families, friends, me.... we all paid for it for her. Financially and emotionally. Divorce of this nature is a hideous thing.
Chaz,
I am right there with you. I totally understand. I pray you are having a better day today.
Take Care,
NMD
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret