Hi Karen,

The police know all about it.We called and had an officer come out and talk to us.Basically if he is just threatening they can't do anything.But if he shows up here they can arrest him.

They said she should get a restrainging order.But she didn't.
We haven't seen him.

So here is my problem.She is a real slob.She has brought these cats to my little apartment.They won't use the litter box.I'm going around cleaning up after them.And I'm allergic.Not to mention I'm OCD so I'm having a hard time with germs right now.I'm in a state of panic a good portion of the time.I can't handle this kind of stuff.

I have to get rid of these cats but I'm afraid if I tell her to get rid of them she will go back to the ex.She is so confused right now.And very attached to these kittens.

How do I tell her without getting her more upset.I feel like I"m going to have to be harsh with her to get her to pull it together.She needs to get it together.She has a baby on the way.She doesn't have much time.7 months is not that long.

What do I do?

Later Friends
Briget


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