W is now out

[upside_downer]

Here is my "intro thread"

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1456625

Now that the W has moved out (still has some things to get), I suppose I fit in the WAW column.

A couple of questions:

1. Should I get D remedy or DB book?

2. Although I don't know for sure whether there is someone else, many things she does make me feel there could be. Do I even approach the subject with her?

3. After my last post in my intro thread, I decided to sleep on the couch tonight instead of the bed. How is it good for me to be "weak" and not be able to sleep in the bed with her, but it's not OK for me to be weak by talking about the R, or contacting her? Since I don't have the book yet, I don't know where to start with "going dark" or even if that is what I should do?