Well, you're very aware of the negatives, now YOU have to do something about them. You can't do anything about # 1,4 but you can certainly change the other negatives - they are within your control. Stop going down cheeseless tunnels because you'll end up with the same results over and over. It's very positive that H stayed over last night and that he invited you to go along. You may have another chance tonight - don't bring up the R at all. Just enjoy the time you spend with H.
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"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
