Ok, H4H, in my case and probably others: dysfunctional kids (OW's) and my H's world-record sloppiness! That's another thing; it's not just that our WAS are realizing the reality of the OP, but the OP is realizing the faults of our WAS too... Karen
Karen, I see that you figured out the quote thing
We can only hope that they realize these things. The sooner the better.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."