Oh yeah, and don't forget that he doesn't have to deal with illness's, moods, and her being on her period and her snoring.
Man, I may just keep going. Anyone else?
Ok, H4H, in my case and probably others: dysfunctional kids (OW's) and my H's world-record sloppiness! That's another thing; it's not just that our WAS are realizing the reality of the OP, but the OP is realizing the faults of our WAS too... Karen