For me, I think that the OM became an EA sometime around last July or August. Coming up on a year already. I believe it only became physical(sex) the first of last month. Still waiting to see if it is floundering, but can't tell. Since she is still at home, she can't see that the grass is NOT greener. From where she is standing, it still LOOKS greener to her, I think. All they get to have is the good stuff. Not the everyday life crap that life has to offer. She gets that with me. Bills, work, kids, responsibilities, pets, laundry, homework, teenagers, cooking, chauffering back and forth, home repairs, car repairs. For them, its talks on the phone, ILY's and lunches. Maybe a stolen weekend night once a month. Girls night out, you know.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."