Oh Lan.....I'm so sorry that I have upset you. I should not have posted that on your thread b/c even though it was not about you and your stitch......(remember what I said)
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I am not directing this to Lan, even though it is on his thread.....it is just an open question to any of the men and I'll go find my bullet proof jacket before hitting the submit button.
It was not about you and your wife! I knew I would probably get attacked by some, but it was late and I was too tired to be posting b/c I had been reading too many other threads......and I was wanting to know what some others thought or expected from their WAW's upon returning home.....but I was not referring to you b/c I know how hard you have tried. It was b/c of everyone's frustration that it was on my mind (and especially my own frustration that caused me to post what I did). But, I should not have taken it upon myself to do it on your thread. If I had been really thinking about what I was doing at the time......perhaps I would have realized that it would hurt you for me to say all of that on your thread.....and sweetie, that is the last thing I would do to you. After all this time, I assumed (which, God help me...I have got to stop doing that) that you knew how much I have been in your corner all this time pulling for you and wanting your M to work out.
Forrest Gump really let me have it over in smartcookie's thread and even though he and I can't seem to understand each other, or maybe we are saying the same thing and I can't see it......the point is, he was right (as bad as I hate to admit it) that your thread was not the place to post this. I don't think that is exactly his words, but I think that he said there was another place on the board to do that.
Anyway, I am crying my eyes out now b/c I have hurt you and I am so sorry, honey, I would not do that for the world. I look at you as one of my own here on the board (and I hope you understand what I mean by that).
I have learned a lesson and that being that I should not post so late at night and especially after reading so much "stuff" b/c it will come out of me at the wrong place and time.
I know I'm repeating myself, but again, please know that none of that part of the post was meant to be directed to you or about you. I apologize and if I knew how to go back and delete it I would.....or if the moderator will do it for the sake of other's feelings....I wished they would. I want to be here as your friend as I always have been......not to get you discouraged, or riled up. I know you are struggling and doing everything you know how to do. I am not ALWAYS on the WAW's side of the stitch.
I don't know what else to say without repeating myself. I am sorry and I hope you can forgive me for hurting you.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
