Papers signed...so what?

[seekpeaceofmind]

The list your H gave you of what he wants to see before he will feel he can come home is interesting and most of it makes great sense. Did you respond at all or just listen? I think I might not want to agree to "don't ask questions" - but that seems like a ground rule issue that could be settled when you get further down the path of reconciliation. For myself, the one that I know I need to do and yet struggle with is "be happy w/o him" - that seems like the key to DB and yet so hard to achieve. I am impressed when I see that other DBers have reached that "I'm happy with my life as it is" attitude and frustrated that I can't seem to get there. I am always looking for "clues" on what works for others. Your talks with H seem so encouraging. It is great that your H still has this pull back toward you - that would give me confidence and hope. It is so important to be happy with yourself and so wonderful when you then also have a partner to share that with. Have a great weekend - w/ or w/o H!