Good luck - I think a separation can be healthy if there is a purpose to it and agreed upon "ground rules". How much contact, how much time to give it before checking in with each other, no dating others, etc. Unfortunately, it seems like most separations are much more one-sided and full of conflict. If you and W can agree on what should be happening during this time, that would give both of you a lot more clarity about how to use this time.
me: 47 H: 48 he has 2 grown sons M 1995(my 1st, his 3rd) hit iceberg 6/07 S 9/26/07 before now
