just today, I confirmed that she is indeed in contact with the same guy she was calling 10+ times a day for the few months right before she left.
She has claimed she left because of how I treated her and the way I acted (being undiagnosed as bipolar), but I cannot help but think that this guy has something to do with it. She has said multiple times that he is "just a friend at work", but I've never had "secret" friends from HER.
She has also sent pictures of herself and our son on vacation to him as well as one other guy at work who made rather "explicit" comments to her that I didn't exactly appreciate as her husband.
I cannot shake this "jody" comment....I know who "jody" is. For those that may not know, its commonly used in the oilfield or offshore profession to describe the person that comes to your house and sleeps with your wife while you are at work...as in "Jody's visiting your wife". For someone to call HIMSELF "jody", in an email to MY wife while talking about a "visit" the next day saying "I know we will have fun".....I dont know.
I just want the damned truth...and even though that conversation took place many months ago, it has been weighing on my mind VERY heavily lately, and I just can NOT seem to let it go.
The thought of some sleezy guy sleeping with my wife makes me want to puke.
Any advice would be MUCH appreciated at this point, as I am finding it VERY hard to not confront her a third time about this...as I STRONGLY feel there is more to this than she is telling me.
