You Can Lead A Horse To Water...

[ACJ]

he called to tell me about his new work schedule ....... will admit, is a much more managable work schedule that would have been such a plus during the time we were together. I couldn't help but feel a little jealous

Hope I'm glad you are nearly back upto 100% fitness. I know you don't hold out for your M anymore (and that's understandable and healthy) BUT I hope you can at least see that your H is starting to think rationally again. It looks to me like he is beginning to care about and work on himself. That has to be good even if it's too late for your M. You seem to be one of the lucky ones and have retained a friendship with your H surely you want that friend to have a healthy outlook on life?

Take care.