jmw, it is amazing isn't it how they change and worm things to their own little world to make themselves look the good guy in all of this. my ex always always said the house was ours, he used to pull me up if ever I said in the heat of the moment, you do the garden its your house, or something like that, he always jumped in and said no it is our house, and he meant it. the house therefore was always to be our son's when anything happened to us, it was all down on paper and in our mirror wills, but when he wanted to put us out on the streets he stated in his statement to the court, that the house was his and it had always been understood it remained his, as I didn't contribute to it as I didn't work, what the hell it was through him I didn't work as he wanted me to stay home and bring son up, it was him that said you don't need to work, i will take care of you and son and provide enough, and then low and behold he threw that in my face in the court proceedings. That hurt and it really hurt, when I think I could have worked and earnt my own money, he made me sound like a right scrounger. It is awful how they turn on us and make us sound so terrible as if they truly hate us
