I used to think that, but then he'll bring up that he "doesn't want to be in this relationship." I've told him before that our old relationship is dead, but I really don't think he wants to come back. If he wanted to come back I think he'd at least be willing to try. By not even being willing to try, IMO, it shows that he doesn't want to come back and he has to want it to even come close to happening.

We'll see.

I'm still on the fence as to whether or not I should file. My heart says I need to (LRT style), but my head (and checkbook) tells me I need to ride it out as long as possible.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.