My H won't work on us at all. He works on family time, on himself, but has consistently said that he just can't face us, or "isn't there." I don't get how he could do this to his little kids without at least trying to work on our R. Instead, his daughter gets to wake up and go to sleep on her birthday without her own mother there. Yes, I will spend most of the day with her, but it's not the same.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.