Boy can I relate to what you are saying. My ex constantly goes on vacation with OW. It is just another way of running and justifying their relationship. Sure, they have some good moments, but as soon as the vacation is done, reality hits them. Vacations are just part of the process.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11